We
have heard that so many times that to succeed in life you need to have
confidence on yourself and in your own ability. If you know how to believe in
yourself in any situation than nothing is difficult in life. Some people have
this misconception that confidence is something that is either present there or
not. They think that it is a natural ability that cannot be implant but it is
not true.
I
think some people who lacks in confidence because they didn’t have the
information or knowledge of the problem or situation that they are facing. So
they feel hesitant to do some task in confident way. That is the main hurdle
between the stairs of success. I think it is not natural ability that cannot be
implanted, I think it is self-belief, believing in something is difficult. But
believing in yourself against
all weird things is an art.
Everything is
controlled and perceived by the mind and if you can train your mind to feel
confident, it will remain confident. I think the most important thing that
defines or explains the confidence is an individual his or her self-image.
Self-esteem plays an important role in determining the attitude of an
individual towards a situation, how he or she behaves towards a situation. It
is generally observed that if a person is not confident he will tend to suffer to
act according to a situation. But a person who is confident will according to
the situation and will do the same work more efficiently.
But a person who is
not confident is always pessimistic in their view point and is defensive in his
approach towards a situation. This is why it is important that people suffering
from lack of confidence must take the necessary steps to build up their
self-esteem. An improved outlook towards life will always bring about
opportunities that are rewarding and prosperous. People with high levels of
confidence are always challenging themselves and are never bothered by any
situation in their lives.
I think some things
that make them better than other one’s is they are not worried about what
others are thinking of them and are always focused on the task in hand.
This is what high self-esteem
can bring you:
o You feel confident
about yourself and are willing to try and test new thing and you feel that you
can do this.
o High confidence
means high courage, you will never back away from situations that are testing
or tough. High levels of confidence can also bring high level of success.
o Feeling confidence
will become more aware about your personality and perceptions and will always
be able to make better decisions both personally and professionally.
o You are always in
control of your life; your decisions are not influenced by any external factors
or influences.
This is how we can build confidence, recognize your insecurities it can be anythingwhatever
is making you feel unworthy, ashamed, or inferior, identify it, give it a name,
and write it down. You can also tear these written pieces to start feeling
positive on those points.Talk about it with friends and
loved ones.Bounce back from your mistakes, remember no one is perfect even the
most confident person have insecurities.
High self-esteem and confidence are virtues that can be enhanced
in individuals at any age. The most easiest and effective way to build
confidence and self-esteem is self-love. Nothing beats self-love. No matter
what your current circumstance is, you need to love yourself for who you are.
If you have a good image of yourself in your own eyes, you will always be in
control of your actions. You will trust your judgment and will always feel good
about your life.
To love yourself you first need to release all the negative conception
or beliefs you may have about your personality. You need to start doing things
you are uncomfortable with. You need to take more control of your life.
The potential in a person is nothing without self-esteem or confidence.
Your talent needs the support of your confidence to shine on any platform.
People are always bound to react in a defensive mode, when the chips are down, but how they emerge from that given situation depends
entirely upon the level of their confidence. So be confident and live your life
to the full.
