The feelings to be loved is a
strong basic need of every human being.If we feel being loved and accepted then
we encounter the vicissitudes valiantly and become dauntless to face any challenge and the world seems a happy
place.Truly, the power of love is great.Anyone who feels it,is blessed.
It
fills us with courage and inspires us to give our best and motivates us to
achievement and success.And when we feel being loved,our natural reaction is to
love and accept others.The world is hungry for love and it has forgotten how to
get it.
If
you are feeling that your life has love,if you are lonely and unhappy,perhaps
you are without friends.
There
are different kinds of love but the sort of supreme love is “the parental
love”which is right of every child wether he is collecting bits of paper and
scape-heap from the garbage or is a son of millionaire.A baby born to a poor
who gives cherishing love ,close tender affection and identification becomes a source of comfort and security and
is more fortunate than a baby boen to an opulent mother who can provide
everything but is unale to give warm accepting affection and inherent love to
her baby.
If
the parents are too possessive about their children, their relentless pursuit
of perfection,their sooting comments and informant orders giving in what they
want deliberately,the spoken confidence,consequently damages children’s
personality.
When
the children become independent they should not forget their obligation to the
parents who sweated for years to cool them. In old age,parents need the company
and consolation of their children because joy and repose chide them. They
become garrulous enjoy narrating and sing stories of their glorius days.The
children should listen to them with patience,deep reverence and without interpretation.
The other two types of crucial love is self
love-vital for healthy life for without it we are unable to receive or give
love.Many depressed people are full of harted for themselves and others too.
We
all need real friends and people who need us,as well as being able to supply
your needs.Perhaps you find it difficult to make friends.The reason is that you
are building a well around you.
Show
genuine interest in your friends, their problems and activities.Be friendly and
tolerant to their views different from yours.In other words be prepared to let
other people hold different opinion from yours.
Always
be prepared to give love as well as receive it.The strange thing is that as we
give, we find love and affection returns to us from many ways. There are many
children who are spending their lives in childless homes.Many old people living
alone in their houses.They would have a new purpose and interest in life.
Husbands
can give and express their love to their wives by showing some appreciation of
as enjoyable meal,by giving the occasional bunch of flowers etc.This will give
them motivational energy and feeling of affection.
Wives
can be more vocal in their honest appreciation by admiring their husbands,
enjoyable their jokes and accepting their importance and value.
“The tragedy of old age
is not that one is old,
but that one was young.”
